Let's address the little blue elephant in the room. Move to New York, spend approximately four days on Hinge, Grindr, Scruff, or whatever app everyone's pretending they deleted this week, and eventually someone is going to ask a question that catches you completely off guard. "So... are you on PrEP?" The first time someone asked me, I smiled, nodded, and immediately realized I had absolutely no idea what they were asking. Well... I knew what they were asking. I just didn't kn